Hey guys. Hope you all are doing well. Today I’m going to share a simple step
that has turned my life around. I could have never imagined how a simple word
can change your life to such a great extent.
The power of NO. The
power to say NO. The power to live with your decisions and doing what you love.
The power of living it your own way.
If you met me few months
ago, you would’ve said that I was a big kissass. I myself would have dejected
me if I met myself a few months ago. I was living my life for others. All I did
was to please others. I kept my self on the backseat and gave everyone else the
steering wheel of my life.
It all started with a
spectacular step that brought around this catastrophic change in my life. I had
this epiphany about life and what I was doing and what I wasn’t. It was soon
that I realized that there was nothing that I was doing for myself. All that I
did was either for someone or because of someone.
Others had taken a toll
on my life. It wasn’t a life worth living. Believe me. All my plans, all my
dreams, all my wishes burned down to ashes.
Then came the day I
decided to start saying NO to things I didn’t want to do. NO to things I didn’t
even enjoy doing. That was the day I was reborn. I had finally started living
life. I had finally started enjoying life. I was the one in control.
I did not have to go out
with friends when I wanted to sleep, I did not have to do stuff when I was
reading, I no longer had to put up with other people’s crap when all I wanted
to do was get the hell out of there.
I became a free bird. I
am a free bird now. And you have to take my word on this, this is the best
feeling ever.
The message through this
blogpost would be to start doing what you like and see the changes in your
life. If you too have been living for someone else, for once try this out and
see the results for yourselves.
There is never a better
time to start living for yourself, then now. I have been in both the situations
and I would never recommend any of you to be that guy who doesn’t live for
himself.
There is a huge
difference in being selfless and living for others. A selfless person does not
sacrifice his will for making others happy. He just does not care about his
happiness and keeps other above him.
So the plan is to say NO
to stuff that you don’t feel like doing. There are no repercussions to this,
only advantages. Stop thinking what others think about you. And start believing
in yourself.
Cheers !!
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